God told me, pay attention to how they view you not just your beauty, but how they see you through the lens of their trauma, how they look at you based upon their ACEs. That moment changed everything. The Viewpoints of Men was born from that revelation. It’s more than a theory it’s a tool for every woman of God to recognize patterns, discern character, and date with divine clarity.

Our perception shapes our reality if you want real change, it starts with shifting the way you see the world.

Understanding Stress and Trauma