A man's viewpoint of you shaped by his past, pain, and patterns will determine how he serves you, honors you, or mistreats you.
Many women find themselves confused by a man’s inconsistency, praying for signs while overlooking the very patterns that reveal who he really is. In The Viewpoints of Men, Mikayla Harris, a faith-based therapist, presents a God breathed theory that brings clarity to relationship confusion by revealing how a man’s inner world shapes the way he treats the women in his life.
Blending biblical truth with psychological depth, Ayla unpacks four core archetypes:
The Proud
The Fearful
The Glorifier
The Healthy
Each viewpoint reveals how a man’s upbringing, emotional patterns, and spiritual development affect his ability to love, bond, and lead. This book moves beyond red flags and surface signs, helping women discern a man's ability to truly cover and care before giving their heart away.
As Proverbs 4:23 reminds us: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
You’ll learn how to stop focusing solely on how he sees you externally your hair, your personality, your presence and start recognizing how his past pain, early attachments, and unhealed trauma shape the way he views you.
Whether you're single, dating, or healing from emotionally unhealthy attachments, The Viewpoints of Men will equip you to walk in wisdom, gain clarity, protect your heart, and break free from the cycles of emotional confusion that keep many women stuck leading you into the kind of clarity Hosea 4:6 speaks of: “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.” This book helps ensure your choices are no longer shaped by lack of knowledge, but by the wisdom of Christ.
This book will transform the way you see relationships because clarity is Christ-like, and God is not the author of confusion. 1 Corinthians 14:33
By the end, you’ll be asking friends (and yourself):
“Girl… what archetype is he?”
Or realizing:
“I was dating a Proud…”
“He was fearful.”
“Oh… he's healthy.
A man's viewpoint of you shaped by his past, pain, and patterns will determine how he serves you, honors you, or mistreats you.
Many women find themselves confused by a man’s inconsistency, praying for signs while overlooking the very patterns that reveal who he really is. In The Viewpoints of Men, Mikayla Harris, a faith-based therapist, presents a God breathed theory that brings clarity to relationship confusion by revealing how a man’s inner world shapes the way he treats the women in his life.
Blending biblical truth with psychological depth, Ayla unpacks four core archetypes:
The Proud
The Fearful
The Glorifier
The Healthy
Each viewpoint reveals how a man’s upbringing, emotional patterns, and spiritual development affect his ability to love, bond, and lead. This book moves beyond red flags and surface signs, helping women discern a man's ability to truly cover and care before giving their heart away.
As Proverbs 4:23 reminds us: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
You’ll learn how to stop focusing solely on how he sees you externally your hair, your personality, your presence and start recognizing how his past pain, early attachments, and unhealed trauma shape the way he views you.
Whether you're single, dating, or healing from emotionally unhealthy attachments, The Viewpoints of Men will equip you to walk in wisdom, gain clarity, protect your heart, and break free from the cycles of emotional confusion that keep many women stuck leading you into the kind of clarity Hosea 4:6 speaks of: “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.” This book helps ensure your choices are no longer shaped by lack of knowledge, but by the wisdom of Christ.
This book will transform the way you see relationships because clarity is Christ-like, and God is not the author of confusion. 1 Corinthians 14:33
By the end, you’ll be asking friends (and yourself):
“Girl… what archetype is he?”
Or realizing:
“I was dating a Proud…”
“He was fearful.”
“Oh… he's healthy.
